Assalamualaikum.
Hye just wanna share some stuffs. Hari tu my guy friend tanya nak buat apa untuk birthday his girlfriend. Sebagai dr Love i gave him some advice. Hahaha padahal more on based kpd preference sendiri but since imma a girl i guess most ladies will appreciate je apa orang buat dekat dia.
Okay. What you guys can do?
1. Belikan hadiah yg dia memang nak. sometimes perempuan suka bg hint by sending u photos ke, ckp "ee cantik kan??!!!!" Takpun bila jalan dia nampak something then dia ckp bnd yg sama berulang2. So take note of that
2. Belikan perfume. Perfume yg you guys suka bau dia. So if lah korg pilih bau yg tak sedap utk gf korg. Tp bila korg ckp, pakai lah bila keluar dgn i. I suka bau tu if u pakai. Confirm your girl akan bahagia je pakai even bau dia bukan kegemaran ur gf. Hehehehe
3. Buat kad. Paling jimat tapi effort kena tip top. Dia akan simpan elok2 punya
4. Masak untuk dia, Ni pun jimat. Like bake cake ke apa. Simple je. Resepi banyak.
5. Buat surprise delivery. Skrg dgn instagram bnyk je yg provide service mcm ni. Sediakan saja ongkosnya. Ada yang bawah RM100. so pagi pagi dpt bunga or coklat of course rasa dihargai giteww
6. Buat video. Maybe video korang wish birthday ke, video korg dgn kawan2 dia yg setiap sorg wish birthday utk dia, or even strangers mana mana kau heret masuk video sekali pun boleh. Sweet kan.
7. Prank time birthday. Surprise party. Ni perlukan effort yg tinggi dan smooth planning.
8. If korg malas nk fikir, bawa je pergi makan restoran, then ckp dgn waiter/waitress tu hari ni birthday dia. Cakap tu sorok2 lah! Kang kantoi lah. Nanti order la desert ke apa and nnt time hantar tu waiter/waitress tu nyanyi beramai2 birthday song. Macam i myself pernah dulu dkt Chilis. Tak tahu nk rasa terharu or malu sbnrnya. Kahkahkah
9. Belikan a slice of cake pun okay. And take a moment just to wish her personally. If boleh nyalakan lah lilin. Nampak la effort nak nyalakan candle. Baru semangat birthday. Ditokok with a letter or card expressing your love ke, wish ke etc. Simple, jimat, romantic and kena jujur lah feeling yg di express tu.
10. Belikan differents shades of tudung color. Huish tu boleh datang kan happy juga. Ada 10 shades of purple ke, merah ke, kelabu ke. Tudung crepe baru rm5 sehelai. Hahaha
11. Belikan apa yg dia perlukan. For example, perempuan lebih kpd fikir apa dia nak dari apa yg dia perlukan. So guys korg kan lagi bijak. Korg lagi nmpk apa yg dia perlukan. kadang2 kasut dia dah koyak, beg dah rabak, Belilah yang baru. Perempuan bila dia dpt dia maybe mcm "laa knp u belikan ni, i punya ok je lagi". Korg pancing lah "U lagi perlukan ni dari bnd lain. At least u guna lah yg baru ni.". Nnt dia ckp korg sweet sebab prihatin. Hahahha
12. Pergi tampal sticky note ke apa dekat kereta dia. Minta tolong roommate ke adik dia ke buat bnd yg sama kat bilik dia ke.
Haa itu je la yang boleh fikir. Hhaaha malas pula nk type pepanjang. Basically apa yg korg buat akan dihargai je. As long as you show interest in celebrating ur loved ones punya birthday. Kau excited nak celebrate hari yang dia lahir walaupun tak ada kena mengena dgn hari lahir kau. Kbai!
Friday, 8 April 2016
Friday, 22 January 2016
Komunikasi
Assalamualaikum and hye!
This is just a random entry.
As an observer, kita always rasa kasihan and at the same time annoyed bila org look pathetic because of love. How they keep on meroyan on social media, feel lost, tak selera makan tak selera hidup just because of love. Well even i myself experience this.
But the main point i want to highlight is if u can communicate ur feeling out on social media why cant u communicate with ur partner to solve things out. Love. You let urself hurt so many times but u still dont want to go away while u have the chance. You still want to stay hoping that there'll be silver lining shining ur way through bringing victory. Kita ada pilihan whether to stay or run away. But we choose to stay.
Tapi if we choose to stay then work things out. Not by babbling urself dkt social media. Nobody likes when kau canang kau tgh bergaduh dgn partner kau. Komunikasi sgt penting. Dan komunikasi meaning perkataan yg baik2 even kau rasa kau mcm nk meletup tp kau still act cool. I love to highlight situasi yg aku dpt masa pergi kursus kahwin dulu.
Bayangkan lelaki bawa bini pi psr mlm. Yg perempuan dia dh beli laksa, apam balik, popia, donut dgn roti john di tgn. Bila lalu dpn peniaga kaya ball dia ckp dgn laki dia.
Situasi 1:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: eh awak ni! Kat tgn awk tu dh ada mcm mcm. Dah dah tak yah mcm mcm. Jom balik!! *bentak si suami*
Wife: *dlm kete pndg cermin muncung mulut*
Suami: knp ni syg?
Wife: tak de pape.
Suami: knp ni diam je?
Wife: tak de pape lah!
Suami: abis tu knp?
Wife: eee awk nim sy dh kata sy nk kaya ball! Awk ni sy dh ckp nak kaya ball. Nak kaya ball lah. Awk main blah mcm tu je. Dah sy nk rasa kaya ball. Apam balik, laksa,popia, donut dgn roti john tu tak ada rasa kaya ball!! Sbb tu sy nk kaya ball. *membebel setengah jam*
........
Situasi 2:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: awak nak ke?
Wife: nakkkkkk......
Suami: tapi kt tgn tu dh ada mcm mcm la syg.
Wife: tapi nak kaya ball jugaaaaaa
Suami: okay boleh. Tp kan syg. Kita makan sebab lapar bkn sbb nafsu. Tahu tak syg, nabi terkeluar dr syurga disebabkan makan tau syg. Ni kali ni sy benarkan. Lps ni awk kena beringat sendiri.
Wife: urmmmmmmmm. Takpelah banggg . Jom balikkkk!
Suami: eh xnak dh kaya ball?
Wife: tak nak lah. Dah balik jom!
Nampak tak beza dia. Cara komunikasi. Semua org boleh komunikasi tp intonasi dan hemahnya komunikasi tu. Hahahaha dh boleh jd penceramah motivasi dah ni. Okay selamat beramal!
This is just a random entry.
As an observer, kita always rasa kasihan and at the same time annoyed bila org look pathetic because of love. How they keep on meroyan on social media, feel lost, tak selera makan tak selera hidup just because of love. Well even i myself experience this.
But the main point i want to highlight is if u can communicate ur feeling out on social media why cant u communicate with ur partner to solve things out. Love. You let urself hurt so many times but u still dont want to go away while u have the chance. You still want to stay hoping that there'll be silver lining shining ur way through bringing victory. Kita ada pilihan whether to stay or run away. But we choose to stay.
Tapi if we choose to stay then work things out. Not by babbling urself dkt social media. Nobody likes when kau canang kau tgh bergaduh dgn partner kau. Komunikasi sgt penting. Dan komunikasi meaning perkataan yg baik2 even kau rasa kau mcm nk meletup tp kau still act cool. I love to highlight situasi yg aku dpt masa pergi kursus kahwin dulu.
Bayangkan lelaki bawa bini pi psr mlm. Yg perempuan dia dh beli laksa, apam balik, popia, donut dgn roti john di tgn. Bila lalu dpn peniaga kaya ball dia ckp dgn laki dia.
Situasi 1:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: eh awak ni! Kat tgn awk tu dh ada mcm mcm. Dah dah tak yah mcm mcm. Jom balik!! *bentak si suami*
Wife: *dlm kete pndg cermin muncung mulut*
Suami: knp ni syg?
Wife: tak de pape.
Suami: knp ni diam je?
Wife: tak de pape lah!
Suami: abis tu knp?
Wife: eee awk nim sy dh kata sy nk kaya ball! Awk ni sy dh ckp nak kaya ball. Nak kaya ball lah. Awk main blah mcm tu je. Dah sy nk rasa kaya ball. Apam balik, laksa,popia, donut dgn roti john tu tak ada rasa kaya ball!! Sbb tu sy nk kaya ball. *membebel setengah jam*
........
Situasi 2:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: awak nak ke?
Wife: nakkkkkk......
Suami: tapi kt tgn tu dh ada mcm mcm la syg.
Wife: tapi nak kaya ball jugaaaaaa
Suami: okay boleh. Tp kan syg. Kita makan sebab lapar bkn sbb nafsu. Tahu tak syg, nabi terkeluar dr syurga disebabkan makan tau syg. Ni kali ni sy benarkan. Lps ni awk kena beringat sendiri.
Wife: urmmmmmmmm. Takpelah banggg . Jom balikkkk!
Suami: eh xnak dh kaya ball?
Wife: tak nak lah. Dah balik jom!
Nampak tak beza dia. Cara komunikasi. Semua org boleh komunikasi tp intonasi dan hemahnya komunikasi tu. Hahahaha dh boleh jd penceramah motivasi dah ni. Okay selamat beramal!
Wednesday, 6 January 2016
You are not their first, so that is why you got treated differently.
Assalamualaikum and hye.
Dalam dunia ini memang manusia tak pernah puas dengan apa yang dia ada. Dalam perhubungan sekali pun, jikalau tak ada ombak datang membadai, dia sendiri cari pasal mencari ombak nak bagi diri lemas.
Wahh gitu metafora aku.
Setiap orang ada sejarah silam dia. Tak semua orang suka berkongsi perkara yang lepas sbb dah tak penting lagi. Macam perangai aku, memang suka selidik. Lagi bila orang tak suka bercerita, aku sendiri selidik sampai jumpa. Kenapa aku selidik? Nak tahu mcm mana perangai orang tu, kawan kawan dia, scandalzz lampau ke if ada, cara dia komunikasi dgn orang, etc.
Kadang2 suatu perkara yang menyedihkan/menyakitkan/geli/menyampah dalam proses menyelidik ini. Tapi curiosity kau mengatasi semua benda tu. The thing is..
Bila kau dh tahu, and kau compare cara mereka layan kwn2 mereka, scandalz zaman dulu ke apa jauh lebih bagus dari attitude mereka dgn kau, buat kau kadang2 terfikir,
"You are not their first, so that's why you are treated that way".
Zaman muda, hormon memuncak, excited terlebih, membalas setiap minit, if tak balas, buat karangan berjela tanya if merajuk, marah mohon ampun maaf di setiap akhir conversation.
Tapi maybe sebab pengalaman yang lps bila dah baik mcm tu org still buat tahi dkt kau, agaknya sebab tu skrg attitude tu dah berubah.
Macam aku, tak kisah lah scandal ke, kekasih gelap ke, kawan ke, boyfriend pertama ke dah masuk dua ke, enam belas ke, once you matter for me, i will do my very best to make you happy. Bukanlah bila org sana diam merajuk, kau buat bodoh and esok pagi say hye like nothing happened je kan. Ada orang yang sanggup to be with you accept all ur flaws, so patut kau akan lagi fall for that person even more. However, susah kot nak dizahirkan.
Hahaha kelakar bila tengok the way people treat the person they once loved with the person they are in love now. But because im just too old for this kind of bullshits so like whatever.
I always pray to god, i do my very best to make people around me happy and be considerate and stuff. If mereka tak membalas dengan cara yang sama it's okay. Sebab what goes around comes around. Maybe ada somebody yg akan hadir salurkan kebahagiaan tu dgn cara yg lain.
Bear this in mind: If you dont like people to compare your past and present, then make a change of your present because what matters most is who stays with you now. They have the right to get treated way better than all those people who dont appreciate you. Make em feel they are worth it for you. You cant expect people to be optimistic 24/7 when your actions and your words not sync. Console. That is what we should do to make things better. To heal the broken heart. Cos each one of us have undergone heart break.
Dalam dunia ini memang manusia tak pernah puas dengan apa yang dia ada. Dalam perhubungan sekali pun, jikalau tak ada ombak datang membadai, dia sendiri cari pasal mencari ombak nak bagi diri lemas.
Wahh gitu metafora aku.
Setiap orang ada sejarah silam dia. Tak semua orang suka berkongsi perkara yang lepas sbb dah tak penting lagi. Macam perangai aku, memang suka selidik. Lagi bila orang tak suka bercerita, aku sendiri selidik sampai jumpa. Kenapa aku selidik? Nak tahu mcm mana perangai orang tu, kawan kawan dia, scandalzz lampau ke if ada, cara dia komunikasi dgn orang, etc.
Kadang2 suatu perkara yang menyedihkan/menyakitkan/geli/menyampah dalam proses menyelidik ini. Tapi curiosity kau mengatasi semua benda tu. The thing is..
Bila kau dh tahu, and kau compare cara mereka layan kwn2 mereka, scandalz zaman dulu ke apa jauh lebih bagus dari attitude mereka dgn kau, buat kau kadang2 terfikir,
"You are not their first, so that's why you are treated that way".
Zaman muda, hormon memuncak, excited terlebih, membalas setiap minit, if tak balas, buat karangan berjela tanya if merajuk, marah mohon ampun maaf di setiap akhir conversation.
Tapi maybe sebab pengalaman yang lps bila dah baik mcm tu org still buat tahi dkt kau, agaknya sebab tu skrg attitude tu dah berubah.
Macam aku, tak kisah lah scandal ke, kekasih gelap ke, kawan ke, boyfriend pertama ke dah masuk dua ke, enam belas ke, once you matter for me, i will do my very best to make you happy. Bukanlah bila org sana diam merajuk, kau buat bodoh and esok pagi say hye like nothing happened je kan. Ada orang yang sanggup to be with you accept all ur flaws, so patut kau akan lagi fall for that person even more. However, susah kot nak dizahirkan.
Hahaha kelakar bila tengok the way people treat the person they once loved with the person they are in love now. But because im just too old for this kind of bullshits so like whatever.
I always pray to god, i do my very best to make people around me happy and be considerate and stuff. If mereka tak membalas dengan cara yang sama it's okay. Sebab what goes around comes around. Maybe ada somebody yg akan hadir salurkan kebahagiaan tu dgn cara yg lain.
Bear this in mind: If you dont like people to compare your past and present, then make a change of your present because what matters most is who stays with you now. They have the right to get treated way better than all those people who dont appreciate you. Make em feel they are worth it for you. You cant expect people to be optimistic 24/7 when your actions and your words not sync. Console. That is what we should do to make things better. To heal the broken heart. Cos each one of us have undergone heart break.
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