Assalamualaikum and hello party people! Lol
This is supposed to be a brief post. But let see how 'brief' wilp it be.
Aku ada jumpa few people yg kdg masih mencari soul partner and asyik bertukar ganti. I mean maybe susah nk cari toleransi and chemistry.
Pernah juga jumpa org yg asyik try approach opposite gender tp dia mcm main tembak je approach tah sape sape.
Kisah cinta zmn skrg tak mcm dulu ke? In which ada seseorang yg dah lama perhatikan atau crush dgn seseorang yang lain dan cuba utk kawan dulu and kemudian if rasa ada chance nk go further masing2 berterus terang perasaan lain. Dah tak ada eh kisah cinta mcm ni?
Kau rasa dgn main tembak approach semua org, how can you be sure kau boleh jumpa soul partner kau? Mcm gamble dgn perasaan sendiri. Macam "yess this one mcm melayan aku so dia mst on dgn aku?"
Kita puji lawa/handome and pretend to be best friend kononnya dgn org kita barely known dgn beberapa org yg berbeza pd masa yg sama. Betul ke niat 'berkawan' atau sbnrnya kau nak try semua yg kau rasa boleh?
You may find one yg akan melayan. Tapi how long it will last kalau cara nk dptkannya mcm tak ikhlas sbb cara dpt kan org tu pon based in try n error beberapa org yg kau dh randomly approached.
This is just my thoughts of how sad it can be bila kau ialah that one person yg melayan and dia decide mcm "eh this one melayan so mst dia okay je if aku nk rapat dgn dia. So on je lah. Walau dia bukan first choice yg aku intend nk approached tp at least dia melayan okay je ah dr takde lgsg". Hahahaha
Mcm a lil bit of player kan. Don't you think so. Puji org ni sikit, kata rindu kat org tu sikit, cuba umpan mana yg boleh. If org tahu, org akan kata kau desperate. But mcm desperate of lust instead of love.
Aim and shoot. Cari the one yg kau rasa boleh dgn kau, dan stay utk berkawan smp right time utk luah isi hati. Bila kau ikhlas utk org tu, in sha allah ia dibalas jika dia jodoh kau. Baituljannah.com kan ada. Hahaha emosi tak kalau aku buat promo kat bawah.
If you are not ready to love jangan bother nak cari. Stay low and berkawan la seberapa kau nak. Berkawan means kau tak try to be cheesy with a hint utk memikat n gedik. People think kau pervert je nnt.
Niat nak cari utk kahwin atau nak geli geli? Niat salah, approach salah , hubungan dibina tu pun jd serba salah. Jd fikir la kenapa sebelum ni tak worked out, adakah it makes sense?
P/s: aku pernah juga sign up baituljannah.com saja2 tp rejected doh sbb maybe aku tulis kat situ aku introvert. Introvert la sgt. Hahahaha
