Komunikasi

Assalamualaikum and hye!

This is just a random entry.

As an observer, kita always rasa kasihan and at the same time annoyed bila org look pathetic because of love. How they keep on meroyan on social media, feel lost, tak selera makan tak selera hidup just because of love. Well even i myself experience this.

But the main point i want to highlight is if u can communicate ur feeling out on social media why cant u communicate with ur partner to solve things out. Love. You let urself hurt so many times but u still dont want to go away while u have the chance. You still want to stay hoping that there'll be silver lining shining ur way through bringing victory. Kita ada pilihan whether to stay or run away. But we choose to stay.

Tapi if we choose to stay then work things out. Not by babbling urself dkt social media. Nobody likes when kau canang kau tgh bergaduh dgn partner kau. Komunikasi sgt penting. Dan komunikasi meaning perkataan yg baik2 even kau rasa kau mcm nk meletup tp kau still act cool. I love to highlight situasi yg aku dpt masa pergi kursus kahwin dulu.

Bayangkan lelaki bawa bini pi psr mlm. Yg perempuan dia dh beli laksa, apam balik, popia, donut dgn roti john di tgn. Bila lalu dpn peniaga kaya ball dia ckp dgn laki dia.

Situasi 1:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: eh awak ni! Kat tgn awk tu dh ada mcm mcm. Dah dah tak yah mcm mcm. Jom balik!! *bentak si suami*
Wife: *dlm kete pndg cermin muncung mulut*
Suami: knp ni syg?
Wife: tak de pape.
Suami: knp ni diam je?
Wife: tak de pape lah!
Suami: abis tu knp?
Wife: eee awk nim sy dh kata sy nk kaya ball! Awk ni sy dh ckp nak kaya ball. Nak kaya ball lah. Awk main blah mcm tu je. Dah sy nk rasa kaya ball. Apam balik, laksa,popia, donut dgn roti john tu tak ada rasa kaya ball!! Sbb tu sy nk kaya ball. *membebel setengah jam*

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Situasi 2:
Wife: *berdiri dpn kaya ball smbl telan air liur sambil pndg laki*
Suami: awak nak ke?
Wife: nakkkkkk......
Suami: tapi kt tgn tu dh ada mcm mcm la syg.
Wife: tapi nak kaya ball jugaaaaaa
Suami: okay boleh. Tp kan syg. Kita makan sebab lapar bkn sbb nafsu. Tahu tak syg, nabi terkeluar dr syurga disebabkan makan tau syg. Ni kali ni sy benarkan. Lps ni awk kena beringat sendiri.
Wife: urmmmmmmmm. Takpelah banggg . Jom balikkkk!
Suami: eh xnak dh kaya ball?
Wife: tak nak lah. Dah balik jom!

Nampak tak beza dia. Cara komunikasi. Semua org boleh komunikasi tp intonasi dan hemahnya komunikasi tu. Hahahaha dh boleh jd penceramah motivasi dah ni. Okay selamat beramal!